Monday, July 10, 2006

Clueless Guys

Rubbin~
Question: Why are men so "clueless" sometimes?

Answer: Men seem clueless at times because we are. Most of the time when you ask what we're thinking and we answer nothing, generally it's true. Most of the time we're really not thinking about anything. Most guys like directness - if you're feeling mad, upset, don't like a movie, concert just tell us. Better to do that than send signals that guys don't pick up on anyway.
I'm sure you've been at a bar or party and there is a guy you like. Instead of flirting across the room simply go up to him and strike up a conversation. Most guys would welcome that. That's happened to a friend of mine while playing volleyball - she liked this one guy or at least thought he was hot without his shirt on. So me being the helpful guy trying to get my female friends laid told her to simply go up to him and strike up a conversation. On a side note - beach volleyball is the place for single people (guys and gals). The women are in bikinis and the guys play shirtless. But she never did go up to him, I just couldn't understand it. Not sure what my point is, but I hope I answered your question.

7 comments:

HOV said...

Dear Rubbin,

Why are guys so cold at times? And what excatly does it mean when a guy would like to keep your relationship on the low down?

Denial Queen said...

Good question! also:
1. What are "sweet girly dreams"?

2. the "friends with benefits phenomenon"?

Anonymous said...

is it a phenomenon or did girls create this so they could be "even" with guys when it comes to sex without commitment--WOMEN, not men came up with that

rubbin said...

For some reason I don't think so. If women just wanted sex without committment just tell us. Women have had 'service men' for decades - the delivery guy, the mailman, the pool boy, the neighborhood kid down the street.

Gaslight ;-) said...

I don't think men are really clueless. I thik they are simple creatures with basic needs and a few irrational wants.

They appear clueless when they don't empathize with us -- or are really too lazy to do the footwork. Come on, ow many men can you think of that just don't date - they long for a way to have semi-regualr sex without pain-in-the-ass of dating.

Pimp Doggie Dawg said...

whoooaa, wait a minute sista, the dates i have had don't end with a "pain in the ass"---what the hell do you stick in there?

Gaslight ;-) said...

Not a literal "PITA", you goober. Figuarative language - now for the written portion of your quiz...